I’m really mad. What should I do?? (Sorry it is so long! I need help!)?
Question by I Am a Ba-Na-Na.: I’m really mad. What should I do?? (Sorry it is so long! I need help!)?
Ok, so I was going through this huge drama with my ex boyfriend and my “best” friend, Val, was helping me out and stuff like she usually does. We were in this chat room on shoutlife.com (its like myspace) when Val’s other best friend, Callie, comes in. Val is like “Callie!” and starts talking to her. I was going to tell Val about what my ex boyfriend was saying, but she was ignoring me and talking to Callie.
In this chat room, you can have audio & a webcam. And Val had audio. She was talking to Callie on the phone, since Callie had no audio or webcam. I turned my audio and webcam on & told Val to listen to me. So she did, and (my audio is pretty loud) I hear Callie say “Who is that?” on Val’s phone, and then Val says “I don’t know” as if she doesn’t even know me!
She does this all the time when her other friends are around. She totally ignores me & our other friend, Brianna, whenever her other friends are around. Brianna is moving, so I will be alone. I want to talk to Val about it, but whenever she is in a “fight” with me or Brianna, she always acts like she doesn’t care. So it’s really hard to talk to her about stuff like this.
I was thinking about just forgetting about her and finding a new friend, but the truth is, I don’t have any. So, what should I do? Please help! We have been friends since 4th grade and we have been through a lot together!
Best answer:
Answer by iArc
Meet her in face to face. tell her how you really feeling she can understand how you feeling. do not give up on your best friend.
What do you think? Answer below!
Become a supervillain!
That way, when some badly dressed superhero (unfortunately you will have to be badly dressed as well, its a requirement of being villainous) captures you, you will be able to blame all the years of slaughter and madness on your troubled childhood and lack of friends. Any jury with half a heart would let you off with a couple hours community service.
=D
while its sounds dumb to throw away a friendship since 4th grade but i had to do it with my friend since 1st grade, we was just not the same people anymore, she choose other friends over me so if i was you i’d just try to find another friend, for a friend since 4th grade to do that to you is shady and if she going to pretend you dont exist or pretend she has no idea who you are then its time to find a new friends. if she does it all the time then i doubt she plans on stopping. i would rather have no friends then have one that treats me like that ^
I disagree with that other answer “don’t give up on your best friend.” If she gives up on you, then there’s no point- you’re not best friends if she totally ignores you and pretends you’re not there. If it’s a one or two time thing then fine, but constantly gets annoying and it is rude.
Don’t have any other friends? Make some. You’d be surprised at how many other people need friends, and need to talk to someone.
You sound like a good friend. Sometimes people take more then they give. You can still keep in touch when your friend moves. Branch out try some new hobbies, school clubs, or volunteer work. Put yourself out there and make new friends with similar interests, you won’t be alone long.